Happy Birthday, m-hi.org

On a day like to day, in 2007 I wrote my first post for the blog. The day was a Friday. I had several plans in mind. Which would be possible with several things available:

• a mouth piece.
• a woman.
• credibility.

A mouth piece for I had many words to say. The mouth piece would have an international character for that would actually place some distance between me and the blog. The domain name had several legal issues sorted and limited to the ownership of the domain other than the host. This would limit possibilities of the domain being taken for violation of some internet laws.

A woman because, all my adult life, I had been used to being around a girl. When I had lost the girl I had been around with, I noticed my abilities dwindled. I needed companionship. I had started with some fasting and prayer for this woman before I eventually proposed on the day like tomorrow after several confirmations. She had been a friend for quite a while. And she came from home. On Saturday, 29th September, 2007, I proposed to her and she agreed.

Credibility because the problem I had required it. For I had stayed 6 or 7 years without the ability to speak what I had gone through in the year 2001. What I was still going through to get for myself a breakthrough from the problem I was in.

I did not have many words at first. I did not plan to post so frequently but to do so as time allowed.

I did not consider putting adverts on the blog for that in the end clouds the credibility of the blog content. Adverts would always make me post what I don't need to being driven by the requirement for gain. I might still put adverts on this blog for its content seems to be relevant still to several audiences though the blog has been absolutely static for a while.

This is 28th September, 2015. There are still many options to use the domain for. But today, Happy Birthday, m-hi.org.

Uwemi wa Hala

I had a friend when I was at Chancellor College. She was my friend from first year to fourth year and was still a friend when I got to Mzuzu University to do my Master of Science degree.
My friend, Rachel Chavula, whom I did not consider myself to be in a sexual relationship with though I did propose to her once while at Chancellor College, got Married to Chrispine Sibande.
They gave a name to their first born child, Uwemi Wa Hara. When I saw the name publicly shown, it occurred to me that the child might be the reason I have had a lot of conflicts with the members of family of Chrispine Sibande’s side.
The Ambiguity of the name, Uwemi Wa Hara, do in some sense mean that I might have left her a virgin. In some other sense, having your virgin friend of a long time such as I had been with Rachel Chavula, is utter stupidity. Therefore, Uwemi Wa Hara, might also have meant to did my honors to my long time friend in giving her a child before she got married. I do not consider this a good thing. Nor do I think I ever gave her a child, unless perhaps, I gave her a child subconsciously with amnesia so that I should not remember.
For all I know, I have never had sex with Rachel Chavula. This is utter stupidity to some but it is what I approve: to respect her virginity until marriage.

me & my girlfriend(2007-2009)

For the sake of my heartbreak, I should not have to pull my woman around where to go and not to go. If Rachel Chavula decided to marry Chrispine Sibande, then perhaps, Chrispine might have wanted me to have a child with Rachel, his virgin wife, but this is something I can not do for that would be a heart break to my girlfriend.

Whatever the name means, I am sure, its nothing to do with me.

Update (19th January 2016)

I have just seen this post today

http://rachelchavula.blogspot.com/2010/09/thus-far.html

I am sure it explains the meaning of the name given to the child who was born Uwemi to Rachel Chavula Sibande.
But I am not sure yet why I seem to be implicated in conflict with the Sibande concerning her.